We Know “NoFap” Is Misleading Men About Masturbation. That is my business and not anybody else’s. It’s also not like I’m going around saying, “This is the video I’m trying to watch.” I’m not gonna share those details. I don’t have a problem saying that in public. Even when you’re married, sometimes you just need some me time, and that’s OK. It’s a pretty common scenario that people use pornography both alone and/or together in their marriage. I don’t think I’m saying anything that is unusual for other adults either. I’m not uncomfortable or ashamed in any way about this. I have a pretty good sense of what I’m willing to talk about in public and what I’m not, and I have no problem saying no if I don’t want to talk about it. I have my boundaries and I know what they are and I’m pretty secure in them. I didn’t want to do something that he would be uncomfortable with. My husband and I talked about it briefly. Sometimes having that external force to focus on allows you to open up a bit more and be more intimate in ways that you may not have done otherwise.ĭid you think about how uncomfortable it might be to talk about this publicly and have your name connected to it? Not everybody is comfortable with the idea of dirty talk or feels sexy doing that.

So I just think it makes it more difficult to maintain that part of your relationship and to build that sense of intimacy. You’re both seeing and experiencing the same thing and you can talk about it, versus having to come up with something spontaneous on your own, especially after a long day at work when you’re brain-dead. I wouldn’t give up trying to do that, but man, porn makes it a lot easier. We’d have to come up with more unique ways to fulfill that intimacy during the times he’s away.

It would make the times when we’re apart more difficult. How do you think you and your husband’s relationship would be affected if he had to be away for a long stretch and you couldn’t use porn to connect? (At least while you’re in Louisiana.)

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